Conflicted Heart

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Your judgment seems to be extremely flawed when it comes to this person, and while you obviously take pride in your martyrdom, another way to see this is to understand that your choice to take the word of a lying abuser over your own experience is extremely risky.

Like the wise brain, your deep heart may feel like a deep, slow moving river. This heart is guided by your values. It knows right from wrong, not in a moralistic sense but as in what is right and wrong for you. The deep heart sometimes whispers, other times speaks with authority. The heart is not always as wise as the head. It knows love, desire and need; but it does not know everything. The brain does not always have the answer. Sometimes it is better to follow the head instead of the heart.

Broken heart syndrome

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The heart is a powerful force and the brain is its translator. When they do not agree, it can become conflicted. It’s about finding a balance between the two for your highest potential. Your deep wisdom watches out for you, not with hysterics or Henny Penny warnings, but by offering the long view. Your wise brain sees potential consequences and asks you if that is what you really want. Remember this voice. Make note of how it sounds and how it feels in your body.For example, if you tend to favor logic, let yourself tune into your feelings. Remember, feelings are not facts. They dont have to make sense. Rather, feelings are information from a less linear aspect of yourself. The Glass House: this man would typically identify as gay only within dedicated MSM spaces. He might have a fake girlfriend as a cover and dreads the time when he will be forced to marry. He connects with others via WhatsApp and Grindr and attends LGBTQ events. In terms of HIV, condom use makes him feel less appealing and he avoids testing as he does not want to be shunned by the gay community. One man said: “I feel comfortable at places like Eclipse – there, you can be you. No one restricts you.” Any event in any of the animated work or video games that did not occur in the manga that was not written with the help from Toriyama or contradicts the events of the original manga would be non-canon.

There is no conflict between the heart and the brain. There is only the conflict between what they want us to know, and what they want us to do. Sometimes the heart wants to follow something, but the brain is telling you to go in a different direction. Life is a series of choices. In each choice we make, we bring the heart and brain together to balance itself out. We are the authors of our happiness—it depends on whether we will be happy. The Conflicted Heart: the man who is fighting his attraction to other men and has not yet accepted this aspect of his sexuality. He does not participate in gay events and avoids seeking out health or support services from LGBT community organisations. He may be experimenting sexually and may need services but is unlikely to seek them out due to the fear of being exposed. The heart is the organ that pumps blood around your body and the brain, is the organ that controls all other organs. What’s the difference? Your heart is always on. Your brain is not.Assess whether your partner is willing and committed to getting help; whether he or she takes responsibility for his or her past and challenges. It is possible your partner may be a diamond in the rough, but you owe it to yourself to keep your eyes open. What do you want right now? What are the long-term consequences? Maturity means balancing both. Sometimes you have to put aside everything that’s going on in the heart and just focus on what’s happening in the brain.