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These tests will never stop. Men should learn to love their women wholly with all of their faults and never hope the situation will improve, as it won’t. If they can’t love their girl as she is, they should move on and find another one. Apparently, when a woman gets emotionally intense, the superior man is capable of penetrating her mood “with imperturbable love and unwavering consciousness.” Try doing that and stop being the mediocre man who wants to discuss things over. In a way, a woman is created to test her man—in the form of “complaining, challenging him, changing her mind, doubting him, distracting him, or even undermining his purpose in a subtle or not so subtle way.” Appreciate and embrace this. Because, as Deida writes: You know you want to hear Deida’s opinion on sex. So let’s talk about the physical aspect of relationship a bit! Deida exhorts the readers to do their best in life, to go after their grand vision, and to be intolerant of mediocrity.
Some of these are The Enlightened Sex Manual, Blue Truth, Finding God Through Sex, and the autobiographical novel Wild Nights. Love is a simple equation according to Deida: “If a man is very masculine by nature, then he will be attracted to a very feminine woman, who will complement his energy. The more neutral or balanced he is, the more balanced he will prefer his woman. And, if a man is more feminine by nature, his energy will be complemented by the strong direction and purposiveness of a more masculine woman.”The only way to pass them is to remain unperturbed with her test, to remain full, strong, happy, and humorous. You need to remain grounded and not show any sign of change.
What are you good at? Are you as good as you could be? Are you contributing as much as your skills allow you to?In The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explores the most important issues in men's lives—from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality and relationships—to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Join this bestselling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise. I don’t believe that you should “embrace drama” and that “the love you magnify may realign her behavior”. That’s not effective advice for men in a relationship. A father is a directing force in life. Without one, you’re left wandering around not knowing where to go. In the decades since the initial publication of The Way of the Superior Man, society has changed significantly. Issues of gender and sexuality long confined to secrecy have become part of everyday conversation, and rigid ideas about our societal roles have begun to dissolve. If your purpose doesn’t align with your form of living, you must be prepared to alter absolutely everything about yourself to make amends and start living the life you were destined to.
Disconnected from your core, you feel weak. This empty feeling will undermine not only your “erection” in the world, but your erection with your woman, too.”As you become more intimate with a girl, her tests will get harder because she’ll get to know your sweet spots. Finally, a guide for the non-castrated male. This book will offend and infuriate some, inspire and test others, but challenge virtually everybody. Few are the books that discuss strong sexuality within strong spirituality. Love it or loathe it, it is a shout from the heart of one perspective of the eternal masculine.”—Ken Wilber, author of Sex, Ecology, Spirituality; No Boundary; and Grace and Grit Most men will timidly poke at the world and give a fraction of what they can. The Superior Man will give everything he’s got. This quote is basically all of chapter nine, but it’s amazing. (The third paragraph is the best one.) Also, as a side note, if you think you’re missing some kind of explanation about what any of this means, I promise you you’re not.
The Way of the Superior Man was certainly an interesting read. The contention of the book is that everyone is made up of both masculine and feminine qualities, but most of us lean towards one more than the other. This is a book for the ‘masculine’ person, be that male or female, gay or straight. It takes us through how to become a ‘superior man’ and how the masculine should act and guide their more feminine partner. We don’t agree with everything, but there’s a lot of truth in this book – sometimes some uncomfortable truths.Rest” will never happen. Life will never be any different than it is now. So stop delaying your big projects. Don’t wait until “you have enough money” or “the kids have grown up”. These are excuses.
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